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#1 Jul 27, 2021 11:10:AM

cjinlakeview
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Son And Son’s Boyfriend Show PDA

Mom Is Furious After Her Brother Allows His Son And The Son’s Boyfriend To Show PDA In Front Of Her Kids...  https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/ … engage_in/

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I'm a dad of two boys 18 and 15, and my 15yr old B has been dating his Best friend let's call him A turned bf for some months now. My son and his bf have basically grown up together as neighbors and his bf has tag ed along on trips with us before as his friend.

We go on a trip to visit my sister who still lives down south round this time every year right before school starts and A has come along before as my friends his parents go away for their anniversary. But this is the first time A is coming along as B's bf ..

Now when we get there yesterday night everythings fine and we have a nice dinner with my sister and her two kids 11M and 9M. Nothing to unsual . But later that night while everyone's watching a movie A and B kiss a bit and cuddle on the couch like a normal couple their age and of course my 9yr old nephew ask about it and A tells his cousin that they're dating. Nephew says ok and No one really says anything about it. Then this morning my sister ask to talk to me alone and starts asking me why I didn't tell her that A and B were dating and that it was totally inappropriate for them to be "canoodling" in front of her young sons. I tell her she's overreacting and she tells me that she's trying to raise her kids right and doesn't think theyre ready for those topics yet. We got into this huge argument over it and have spoken all day ,AITA

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#2 Jul 27, 2021 7:57:PM

fred31
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Re: Son And Son’s Boyfriend Show PDA

what's PDA?

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#3 Jul 27, 2021 9:39:PM

cjinlakeview
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The abbreviation PDA for public display of affection is first recorded in the 1960s. Both the full phrase and abbreviation appear to come into more widespread use in the 1980–90s, and they may have been given an additional boost in the 2000s, thanks to the frequent use of abbreviations in digital communication.  https://www.dictionary.com/browse/pda#: … munication.

The term PDA was first used on January 7, 1992 by Apple Inc. CEO John Sculley at the Consumer Electronics Show in Las Vegas, Nevada, referring to the Apple Newton. ... Palm would eventually be the dominant vendor of PDAs until the rising popularity of Pocket PC devices in the early 2000s.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personal_ … _assistant

https://acronyms.thefreedictionary.com/PDA  All the acronyms used for PDA

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#4 Jul 28, 2021 12:03:AM

REVOLUTION9
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Let your ignorant sister in on the fact that affection between two human beings, no matter what their sexual preferences will NEVER DAMAGE anyone or anything in this universe. Find a way to FORCE IF YOU HAVE TO her understandings concerning human behavior. Like many liberals who shout their sophistication to the world daily, she, unfortunately has the "Ick factor" .

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#5 Jul 28, 2021 7:20:AM

fred31
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Thanks for the explanation of PDA. The writer (who tells his story on a website that seeks views on whether their viewpoint is reasonable or not) and his son and the boy's lover were guests in a private household, and it seems to me reasonable for the guy's sister, who is the parent in that household to have been forewarned of the change in the nature of the relationship of the guy's son and his friend, and for her to have the right to set groundrules about how this relationship is made manifest, in front of her own children. She might well have objected if this was a heterosexual event.

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#6 Jul 28, 2021 8:23:AM

Chthonic49503
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PDA and NPD have been used as terms by the US Military for far far longer than Apple.. so they don't actually have a claim outside the Personal Data Assistant (electronic device).

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#7 Jul 30, 2021 7:59:PM

kcginca
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IMHO politely remind your sister that love neither gender nor color. LOVE is natural and normal and should NEVER subject to scrutiny.

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#8 Jul 31, 2021 3:20:AM

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I can see both sides of the situation but it sounds like the 9 yr old was unfazed by it so no big deal.  My hubby and I have many nieces and nephews that have grown up with us being a couple.  THey all have just accepted it.

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